- Words to Live By
- Wanderlust
- Love You Forever
- I Crack Myself Up
- The Crashing of the Waves
- It All Comes Down to This
- Hear Me Roar
- Ink I Like
- My Faith Has Found a Resting Place
- My Geek Credentials
- Yummy Things to Look At
- Architecture & Design
- Everything Is Educational
- Wendy’s Butterfly Garden
- Blogs I Read
- Survivor
- Unimpressed Caleb
- QCA- Quad Cities Awesomeness
- Marketing & Graphic Design
- Health & Fitness
- Lifeguarding & Water Fitness
- Closet Wishes
- Crunchy Living
- Back in the Day
- Art I Like
- Event Ideas
- Home-type Stuff
- Products I Love
- Why Didn’t I Think of That?
- Breaking News
- Dogs That Crack Me Up
- Holiday Festivities
- Yummy Things to Eat
- Thought You Might Want to See This
- Ideas for My New Home
Category Archives: Family
Birthday Parties I Remember Best (In Honor of the Fact that My Birthday [and my sister’s] is on Tuesday)
- Grown-up Girls Slumber Party – My 38th/Meredith’s 35th
- Pink & Yellow polka-dot theme carried out on cupcakes, cd cases, gift bags
- Personalized Party Music CD
- Gift bags of goodies for everyone
- Late night drunk Twister
- My Fabulous Fortieth Birthday – My 40th/(Meredith couldn’t be there)
- Art heist mystery!
- A Classic Never Goes Out of Style
- The First Time Parents Rented Falcon Field Swimming Pool Party — My 12thish?/Meredith’s 9thish
- Guest list limited to 60, not counting Grandparents who got to come no matter what
- An entire picnic table full of presents for both of us
- Home-made pool party invitations
- Mystery Party in Maui – My 39th/(Meredith couldn’t be there but Michelle was!)
- Murder Mystery — Carlene did it!
- Travel companions and island friends
- Small Water-Games Themed Party — My 9thish/Meredith’s 6thish
- Water balloon toss
- Two guests each, plus 2 mutual guests
- Surprise Party at Organ Stop Pizza — My 19th/(Meredith was on a youth group trip)
- Camping Party in Grandma & Grandpa Rock’s Camper — My 11th/Meredith’s 8th
Reasons to Love the Month of June
- My birthday
- My half-twin’s birthday
- Lots and lots and lots of friends’ birthdays
- My parents’ anniversary
- Warm air
- Sunshine
- Outdoor swimming pools
- Cook-outs
- Hot dogs on a grill
- Camping
- Smores
- Flip flops
- Cute skirts
- Bright days
- Long nights
- Longer days
- Six Flags
- Flag Day
- Ceiling fans
- Flowers
- Did I say Our Birthday? 🙂
Things I Wasn’t Sure I Could Do But I Did
- The portage to Sunbeam Lake
- Losing 40 pounds
- Assembling my TV cabinet
- Asking a guy on a date
- Eating rice with chop sticks (which I am still not good at)
- Writing a novel
- Completing a triathlon (although actually I was pretty confident in that one)
- Moving away from my son
- Taking on a new job with people I didn’t know
My Cousins (In Chronological Order as Best as I Can Figure Out)
- Beth
- Jeff
- Brigit
- Steve
- Mike
- Matt
- Marty
- Randy
- Sarita
- Alicia
- Jonathan
19 Reasons to Celebrate My Son’s 19th Birthday Today
- It’s his Golden Birthday! Nineteen years on the nineteenth!
- He’s an amazing young man who has empathy, maturity, and wisdom beyond his years.
- He makes me laugh all the time.
- When I am sad, he hugs me until he takes away at least some of the sadness.
- Even at 19 years old, he still doesn’t mind hanging out with his mom.
- He talks to me. Really talks. About important things and unimportant things and dreams and goals and life decisions. We communicate well.
- Hardly anything can embarrass him. And I’ve tried.
- He brings his friends around.
- We like a lot of the same movies and TV shows and enjoy watching them together.
- He thinks I’m young enough to understand the music he listens to.
- He has indeed introduced me to a lot of new music.
- His smile is quick and sincere.
- Even when he was young, he’s always been able to talk to anyone. People don’t scare him the way they do me.
- He kills bugs for me.
- Almost all of my favorite memories involve him.
- Before he was born, when I was in a car wreck, there were some scary minutes when we couldn’t hear his heartbeat. I don’t think I’ve ever prayed harder than that hour.
- He supports my goals and dreams, even if they take us away from each other geographically.
- He loves with his whole heart.
- I am so proud of the man he has become.
Favorite Easter Memories
- Early morning Sunrise Services, sitting outside, shivering in the early desert air
- Breakfast in the church fellowship hall
- Beautiful dresses sewn by my mother
- Dying eggs –the smell of vinegar, writing on eggs with a white crayon, leaving them in the dye a long time to get vivid colors
- Hiding and seeking the eggs
- The year my dad hid an egg in the rafters of the front porch and it wasn’t found ’til months later
- Easter hymns: “Hear the bells ringing they’re singing that we can be born againnnnnnn…”
- Imagining the wonder of the women who found the empty tomb
- Easter baskets with chocolate and jelly beans and plastic grass
Things I Miss About My BFF Wendy
- Her laugh – the way she would throw her head back and clap her hands together and laugh with her whole soul
- Her ability to get things done. Now.
- Her willingness to stop whatever she was doing to do something more important for her friends.
- Her enthusiasm for life.
- Her refusal to let the cancer define her as a person.
- Her stubborness. It’s a trait we share.
- Her slightly naughty sense of humor, which probably most of you didn’t get to see.
- Her all encompassing love for her children, all 5 of them.
- Lunch at Chi-chis. Or Bishops. Or Hardees.
- Girls time in DesMoines with all 3 of us BFFs
- The way she never ever ever complained about anything. Not the cancer, not her divorce, not the chemo, not even at the end.
- Her drive and ambition.
- Her cream cheese mints.
- Planning events with her.
- When she would load up all the 8 million kids and take them to her house to make cookies.
- How she always told me the truth. Always. No matter whether I wanted to hear it or not.
Most Interesting Texts in my Inbox
- “You text like a 2nd grader” – from my son Caleb
- “I’m behind the trees”- from KM
- Picture text, bicep tendon surgery – from RL
- Picture text, baby quilt, “R just finished Grace’s quilt!! It’s AWESOME!” – from SP
- “PS Is this picture of pi make you want to come here sooner?” – from my 10 year old nephew AR
- “I had yeetg pilled aboug 30 monitrs ago. I cznt” – from another employee I’d texted about working
- “Teeth. Pulled. So many drugs.” – the next text from the same employee
- “Which part of the story? The resolution. If you meant store, I’m headed toward the front.” – from honorary son AD
- Picture text of handwriting, “What does the word ‘hearing’ say about me? I feel like I’ve been doing crazy stuff to my g’s lately which has to mean I’m secretly a lunatic.” – from KB
- “I just watched Survivor. Those women are STUPID!!” – from RD
- Picture text, aluminum cooking pot, “At IKEA buying pot” – from JD
- “We gage all the babies.” followed up with “I mean, we are on the way” – from Caleb
- 3 texts in a row: “What?” “Really?” “This could be the stupidest move ever” – texting with my sister while watching Survivor
- 2 texts in a row: “What the f…? They need to get rid of Colton.” “Stupid!!!” – texting with JK during Survivor
Names of Pets (or sort of pets) I’ve Had
- Ring Around the Collar
- Kai
- Kira
- Nanook
- Silverado / Silver
- Starbuck